Monday, November 19, 2007

Exhausted but wonderful!

Finally the wedding is over!!

Haha!! No not my wedding...A friend's wedding. Well in detail, my dad's best friend's daughter's wedding. So since it's best friend's daughter's big day, sure we've got to be there to get involved.
Was involved in a big part of deco. Been running around for the past week shopping for deco materials, and making them.

I'd say tho it's been a craze running erands here and there for the wedding, it was also relaxin being able to sit down again and work on some crafts. Making the guests book, the flower gal baskets, etc...Decorating the bride's room was the loveliest. The room was already painted in PINK!! I was literally screaming in excitement when I saw the room colour!! Yes! I'm a PINK freak! I have a fren who calls my own room "The Pinkenizer" ..LOL..Tho my walls arent painted pink but most of the stuff are pink..=D ok enuff of me being a pink freak.

Back to the wedding...It was really lovely cos the bride's fav color is pink too...so
most of the decos and stuff that mum I made was all in pink!! SO LOVELY! I totally enjoyed doing up the decos. There were so much to do that when we went shoppin for materials, people asked mum if it's her daughter getting married!! *sigh*

There it goes again and it's where all this questioning begins!! Cos, naturally all dad's other old friends will be there as well...and I was just being bombarded with questions like.... You see, my dad was 1 of the last to get married among his friends..So most of their kids are either married or engaged, or attached! So I just smiled and said "prolly in 10 yrs unc / aunty!!" LOL

This other good friend of my dad actually suggested to re-introduce me to that lil boy who was my partner during their wedding cos I was their flower gal then. I can barely remember that boy man!! Seems that he is now in Aus and coming back
for christmas and very good lookin now and still single. My parents? They are totally up for it.. Gosh! Looks like I cant escape this one.. Well i guess no harm getting to know a new friend, like aunty Chiew Har always advice,to meet all the guys I can before jumping the band wagon. I guess I can put this advice into good use again...LOL..=P

Oh and I met this long time family friend..this old aunty who knows my parents way b4 ..they got married..she's now 90 years old already man!!..So yea she practically saw the whole stage of my parent's courtship and then getting married, have me, 9 1/2years later have my bro...Kinda seen me growing up la. She was like and she went on giving me advices on how to choose a bf...Lol...she's such a sweet granny..she's practically like my own granny dee... such a long time family friend.

Yea so that's practically it for me, during the wedding and thru out the dinner night! Gosh! That was a breaking record night of how many times I have to answer those questions. (Not mentioning that I choked on the wedding cake too! That was horrible!)..Oh well..Anyways I'm still young and I have time to choose still! Tho it's prolly time to think bout relationship but guess I'm not desperate. I beleive that God has someone installed specially for me and He's just gonna reveal the person to me at the right time. He might or might not be someone I already know. I'm just gonna wait la. Will just continue to stroll down the lane, till I see 1 that's worth staying for.

Relationship aint as is as any think it is. It comes with commitment and when it comes to relationships. I'm serious bout it. It's for a life time man! If I dont see the possiblities of walking down the aisle with that someone I wont enter into a relationship with him. That's my principle.

It's ok to meet all the guys out there but it's different when it comes to someone that we may develop feelings for. And jumping the band wagon, getting into a relationship first, isnt the right thing to do just to find out if that person is the right one. As a gal, we ought to respect ourselves,
treasure ourselves 1st. If we just so simply easily getting into a relatioship just like that, and if it doesnt work out, some of our 'colour' will just fade away. The more 'doesn't work rships' we get ourselves into, the more 'colour' we loose. 

I always rmber aunty Chiew Har's illustration. Just like an M&M.. If being held in the hand by 1 person, and then the M&M gets past around, when it gets to the 5 or 6 person, the colours are prolly 80% gone. That's  what happens if we just get into 1 rship after another. By the time we reach
the right person, our flavors and colours might just be gone and there aint much left to be savoured, or we will have nothing much left to give. That's why learning to guard our hearts is so important!

I have so much to say bout how people an especially our generation see relationships so lightly. Just sad to see somthing so precious being viewed as something so lightly by people today.That's why
there are so many hurting relationships out there. 
Oh well..that's another topic all together as I have so
much thoughts.  Will blog bout it another time perhaps. Now I'm just exhausted..it's been a long week w so many things going on..aft the wedding, stayed over at Judah and Xiao's place for the weekend, went out and all...had midnite movie...haha...Gory 30 days of night..But I totally enjoyed the company w you guys and a few others who were there as well..raymond, daren, yueh, etc... I just got home not long ago. Prolly gonna take a rest before going out to the office. =D

Indeed an exhausting BUT a wonderful week!!!

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